爭吵的時候也要注意和諧
1. Please try to understand my point of view.
請理解我的觀點。
2. Wait, can I take that back?
等一下,我能收回我說的話嗎?
3. you.don't have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.
我不用幫我解決這個問題。和你聊一下就對我有幫助。
4. This is important to me. Please listen.
這對我很重要。請仔細聽。
5. I overreacted.
我反應過激了。
6. I see you're in a tough position.
我知道你的處境艱難。
7. I can see my part in this.
這個問題,我有錯。
8. I hadn't thought of it that way before.
我以前沒有這樣想。
9. I could be wrong.
我可能是錯的。
10. Let's agree to disagree on that.
讓我們接受我們的不同觀點。11. This isn't just your problem; it's our problem.
這不只是你的問題。這是我們的問題。
12. I'm feeling unappreciated.
我感覺沒有收到重視。
13. I know I need to listen more.
我知道,我應該多傾聽。
14. Let's take a break for a few minutes.
讓我們停一會。
15. I realize it's not your fault.
我意識到這不是你的錯。
16. That came out all wrong.
我表達錯了。
17. I see how I contributed to the problem.
我明白我引起了這個問題。
18. How can I make things better?
我怎樣才能把事情變得更好呢?
19. We can solve this if we work together.
如果我們攜手合作,我們就可以解決這個問題。
20. I'm sorry.
對不起。
21. I love you.
我愛你。
最後兩句是最簡單、最有力量的!